Endurance: Improves your breathing, heart rate, and stamina.

Strength: Builds muscles. Increases the metabolism. Tones the body.

Balance: Helps prevent falling.

Flexibility: Helps keeps your body limber, stretches important muscles, keeps movement fluid.

BOOKS

PRESCRIPTIVE STRETCHING. Kristian Berg. 2011. This book gives authoritative information about the bone structure and musculature of the human body. It provides solid background information that is helpful. The stretches are fairly easy to follow and the illustrations are also clear. It is a user friendly book. One of the best sections, “Results of Inactivity,” provides strong motivation to “GET MOVING.” Having arthritis of the neck, I regularly practice stretches. They are better than a pain pill. The exercises reinforce what I had learned during physical therapy.

15 MINUTE GENTLE YOGA. Louise Grime. 2008.
This is a book that also has a DVD with four fifteen-minute workouts. All the asanas are clearly explained and illustrated. The book also gives you different ways to lessen the strain, using props and blankets, etc. I would not suggest this DVD for anyone who has not had some yoga practice. Watch the entire DVD. Check the book and then gently experiment. ANY PAIN, STOP. One of the better sections teaches you breathing techniques that anyone can do. I tried the workouts, but I did not force myself in any way. I cannot sit on my feet, so I used blankets to fill in the gap. It worked.

DVDs

YOU: STAYING YOUNG WORKOUT. Joel Harper. 2007.
This is a level four workout. This “easy” workout requires a high degree of balance and flexibility. You have to be selective in doing the strenuous stuff. The Chi Gong level is softer. Use chairs for support. Not a good starter DVD.

DISCOVER TAI CHI FOR BALANCE & MOBILITY. Scott Cole. 2010.
I highly recommend this DVD. It is a good starter DVD for everyone. Why? As we age we need to mind our balance. I hear of so many people having falls. This DVD guides you through a continuum of breathing exercises with gentle movement, then simple Tai Chi stretches, and chair exercises. These exercises are easy to follow and fun to do. Having a variety of programs prevents boredom and keeps you motivated.

JANE FONDA PRIME TIME. TRIM, TONE & FLEX. 2011.
An aging Jane Fonda is the instructor. Remember her? She set off a flurry of exercise videos that started the home exercise trend, and now she joins the boomers for keeping fit. Two twenty-minute workouts take you through non-invasive exercises. One or two of the moves might be challenging, but you do not have to do them. She does offer alternative moves. The program is user friendly, but cardio work is not included. Must be reasonably fit.

WALK AWAY THE POUNDS. Leslie Sansone. 2006.
Sansone’s DVDs always get a thumbs up from me. Half the staff swears by her. When it’s raining or the sun is too hot, you can still maintain your exercise program in the comfort of your own home. Walking in front of your television may seem strange, but it works. The pace changes, the moves change, and in no time at all you have walked one or two miles (Your choice.) There is also a section, “Muscle Mile One,” that includes strength training, which I love. This DVD is aerobically sound and boosts your metabolism. It doesn’t matter if you’re out of shape. Start slow and soon you’ll be fast stepping with the best of them.

LET’S GET STEPPING! Debra Mazda. 2009.
This Shapely Girl DVD is self-advertised as fun and safe with easy-to-learn steps, which it is. However, they neglected to tell you that you will need a special step platform to really benefit from it. I checked the cost of these steps, and they run from $20 to $40, and truthfully, I can’t think of a replacement. Aerobically it‘s a bit tough. Most of us would need to practice for weeks to finish it comfortably. The moves are clearly explained, but the pace is challenging.

CARDIO FOR BEGINNERS. Petra Kolber. 2008.
This DVD is another winner that I recommend to start your aerobic training. The first two sessions are short (10 min.). Depending on your degree of fitness, you may want to continue. The second segment has a little aerobic dance routine that is fun. Watch this DVD first. Select one of the five options. The last option, the stretches, I was also able to do with a little cheating. There is a booklet with tips to maximizing your workout.

YOGA WEIGHT-LOSS WORKOUT FOR DUMMIES. Andrea Ambandos. 2005.
For strength building and toning, this DVD is an oldie but a goodie. It has four fifteen-minute workouts that are vigorous and challenging: abs, arms, buns, and thighs. The help out tips, such as using a mop for stability, take you to a safe place. There are alternate choices for difficult moves (e.g. pushups, etc.) which made me feel better. Armed with a good cardiovascular workout, this DVD is a keeper. View first.

CHAIR PILATES. Susan Tuttle. 2009. (Need a large ball, about $2.)
Don’t think because you’re sitting on a chair that this is a pushover workout. Susan Tuttle takes you through two brisk 30-minute Pilates exercises that are pretty serious, but the moves are manageable, leaving you feeling good, but maybe a little tired. I liked this DVD. As in every case do what you can, knowing that you will improve as you go along. Just remember to hang on to the ball. People in wheelchairs need to experiment.

LESLIE SANSONE’S WALK AT HOME. WALK THIS WAY! Leslie Sansone. 2009.
This is a five star beginners DVD. There are four basic moves: walk, kick, knee raises, and side steps. Start with the one mile walk, and you cannot go wrong. Here is a DVD with aerobics for everyone–safe and healthy. You can also tune out the voice and just stick with the music, which is also a bonus.

GENTLE YOGA FOR SENIORS. (Yoga Therapies for Seniors and the Physically Challenged.) Mary Cavanaugh. 2008.
For the physically challenged, there are three sections: Yoga from a bed, Yoga from a chair, and Yoga standing poses. These are not sissy exercises, but if you just start by doing a tiny bit, you will take pride in the progress as you improve.

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If We Don’t Start Now, We May Never Get the Option…Lu’s Safety Rules and Other Tips.

Our goal is to improve our well-being, not to become a hospital statistic.   Remembering that we are alone is essential. There is no trainer or teacher to look out for you, so you really must look after yourself.  Here are some common sense ideas that we need to follow.
GET GOOD ADVICE.  SEE YOUR DOCTOR BEFORE STARTING.
AND NOW…
•    Clear your workout area.  Falling over a chair or the cat can be dangerous.
•    Wear comfortable clothing and decent shoes with sufficient support.  I like sloppy and fun shirts with loose pants, but I am fussy about good shoes.
•    Watch the DVD first.  Gauge your abilities and proceed slowly. Training too hard or too fast will produce negative results.  Use your brain as well as your body.
•    WARNING SIGNS to STOP:   1. Pain or pressure in the chest, or left side of neck, shoulder, or arm.   2. Feeling dizzy or sick.    3. Breaking out in a cold sweat.   4. Muscle cramps.    5.  Sharp joint pain.   6. Erratic heartbeat.
•    Avoid boredom by cross training, using a variety of programs.  Combine a recipe of cardio and strength, with a dash of flexibility, or even a line dance.  You’re the boss of the applesauce.
•    Most DVDs will have a short warmup, but if they do not, just walk in place, increasing your heart rate.  Five minutes of warmup is a good rule of thumb, and never, ever stretch  cold muscles.
•    Cool down gradually in the last few minutes and finish off with stretching the major muscle groups.  This will reduce soreness and stiffness.
•    Drink plenty of fluids before you start to exercise, about 16 ounces or so an hour before you begin.
•    Exercise about three or four times a week.

I have compiled this list from dozens of sources, learning more as I dug deeper.

Practicing what I preach has made me a better woman by far.  I am going to add a list of DVDs that I used and reviewed to guide you.  I cannot pretend to be an authority, but I think you will find them healthful, oops, helpful. They contain a tinch of my blood, sweat, and tears.  I never could stand on my head, and now I don’t want to.  Ah, sweet youthful movement can still be ours.

Lu

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“MOVE IT OR LOSE IT.”

This aggravating mantra is SO, SO true.  One of the sadder facts of aging is the slow but steady deterioration of the physical aspects of our bodies.  What else is new? But with a selective  program of cross training, we can prevent and slow the pace of this biological fallout. A program of cross training will keep us fit and enable us to stay independent.

Cross training uses a variety of exercises and body  moves that will help you maintain your balance, increase your flexibility, improve your strength, and pump up your endurance.  WOW!  The harsher side is your commitment. It’s kind of like running your own boot camp.

How well you age is determined only partly by your genetic makeup–the “my mother had a hammer toe and so do I” syndrome. It is equally determined by how well you manage your physical needs.  Your body is like a car that needs maintenance.  I am a silver Jeep with arthritis. It strikes like an avenging angel.  After trial and error I found the best way to relieve it is exercise.  It works for me.

Starting any form of exercise can be a beast.  Once I begin I’m home free.  With every repetition, I delight in getting better.  Because  I’m such an independent person, I want to keep my personal space as long as I can.

Doctors are not physical trainers.  They rarely give you an intensive exercise program.   Walking is the official prescriptive advice, but walking is not enough.  Yes, it is by far the best and easiest means of retaining your physical well-being, but in addition to mobility, we need to consider balance, strength, and flexibility.

Not to worry, our library offers a variety of DVDs that will guide you to FEELING GOOD…BETTER…BEST.  Let’s start with walking.   Ah, who wants to go for a stroll on a windy, cold day with patches of black ice, or worse, when the temp is high and the air muggy?  You don’t need that grief when you can walk in the safe comfort of your own home.  Yes, you can walk at home using one of our many DVDs.  My favorite walk is with Leslie Sansone.  She has a 15 minute one-mile walk with weights. You’re getting endurance and strength in one session.

We have a huge variety of exercise DVDs–everything from belly dancing to armchair Yoga. The tricky part is selecting the ones that will get the job done. I watched Gentle Yoga done by an 83-year-old woman. Well, unless you’ve done Yoga all your life, you couldn’t possibly use it. Therefore, I plan to post a bibliography with annotations to help you.  I will post it in the over 55 section of the website.

If you think we should sponsor a one- or two-mile walk for seniors, please let me know.  I think we could have some fun with this idea. It’s not a beauty contest. It’s for your health.

Lu

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Perversely, I have discovered within myself a peculiar flaw, or a need, or call it a power enhancer.  I find myself wrongly thinking that my opinions and thoughts are somehow a big deal.  With the weight of my age and experience, I KNOW BETTER.  OUCH.  WRONG.

I will give you an example.  When I hear someone, anyone– family, friend or foe–talking about their plans or ideas, I want to jump into my Guru Mode and spout forth my wise words.  Or worse, I will interrupt, thereby effectively cutting off open communication.  I am coming totally from the wrong place.  I am not the Queen of their kingdom.   Each person has the inalienable right to make their own decisions.

I picked up on this with a recent conversation with my son.  Prickly pickles!  I started to tell him what I thought he ought to do. I could feel the bad vibes, the shutting door, the “I love you, Mom, but mind your own business!”  I flunked the nonjudgmental listening test, and not for the first time.

After a few other similar experiences, I realized what a jerk I was.  What I did not understand  was how difficult changing my approach to listening would be.  I did a little investigative work: everyday banter has guidelines, but active listening requires different skills. Active listening is one of the highest, hardest skills a person can acquire.  It’s  practice, practice, practice, and then practice all your life long.

Was I always such a butinski?  In the archives of my mind, I remembered my own Mother.  After my father died, I recall thinking, she was a queen without a kingdom. She had no one to nurture.   There is a juicy morsel of wisdom in this memory.  Rather than minding everyone else’s business, I decided I must enlarge my own kingdom, really embrace my own identity, and extend my interests.

Proactive for yourself.  If not now,  when?

Lu

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I just ordered a book for a member, The Party of Your Life: Get the Funeral You Want by Planning It Yourself by Erika Dillman.  When I paused to think, I recalled there was a time when I found the topic of death shivery and unwelcome.  I believe the younger you are, the harder it is (excuse the pun) to live with the thought of death.  Now, while I am not ready to embrace death as my favorite topic, I understand there is a practical nature to be considered.

When my husband went into hospice, I freaked out.  Plan a funeral? Where do I start?  And so on.   I was fortunate. A dear friend with the right background advised me in a hundred different ways, easing my mind and giving me direction.  Traditions and rules have changed radically.  Cremation has become a choice.  Ashes do not have to be buried in sacred ground.  Do not be bound by old traditions.

Knowledge is crucial to your peace of mind and your pocketbook.  I don’t know many poor funeral directors.  With that in mind, do not allow yourself to be manipulated.  Good sense and your taste should prevail.  However, if you want to make a farewell gesture, well, why not?  One final shining moment for you to leave the people you love.    Order a champagne toast if you like.  The people marked “special” in your life will find COMFORT.  Write out the specifics as an addendum to your will.

I mean no disrespect to any faith or nationality.  There are many rituals that different communities observe.  There is no right or wrong, and no judgment is involved.

This past week a dear friend lost her mother.  Off I went to the heartland of Iowa to a small community where everyone seemed to know each other.  The number of small, personal  floral offerings amazed me.  As I stood at the burial site with a wind chill of zero, I felt happy to be there.  I think the entire town came.  Is that why they call it the heartland?  Well for sure, it’s cold.

I write this not to put you off, but to alert you to your last adventure.

Lu

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Want to enjoy the holidays?  In the crush of the season, there you are—running from one store to another, chugging breathlessly along the bumpy track to another holiday.  Help!

Once in a while we all need a refresher course called BEING OKAY AT THE HOLIDAYS.  At a recent library staff institute day, we had a motivational speaker who gave the staff practical ideas for giving better service to our patrons and receiving the satisfaction of helping someone.  His first tidbit of wisdom (I am not being snide) was to leave your FUNK at the door.  Roughly translated, it means whatever is going on in your life, when you come to work, “Leave your funk at the door.”  Shift your focus to the present.

I think we can apply this maxim to our lives in many ways.  I think of FUNK as those nasty feelings, fed by nasty thoughts, that invade our head and spoil our personal peace.  When we carry our FUNK around, we cannot respond to living the moment.

This same speaker spoke of the value of meditation.  Sitting tall, close out the day, and focus on your breathing.  Watch the flow of your mind and just return to breathing .  This little exercise minimizes stress.  I have tried it and vouch for the benefits.

In fact, the library offers a selection of books on this very topic.  I am now reading/using  Meditation: an In-Depth Guide  by Ian Gawler.  Don’t let the word “in-depth” throw you; it is readable and doable.

I am my own stop watch. When I tighten my jaw, crank up my engines, and hit the gas, I know this is a bad thing.  The holidays often affect us thusly.  I overcook, rethink my gift list, reposition decorations, and on and on.  Neurotic?  I am.  I stop this process and go into a calming mode.  I meditate and then realize I have a nutsy attitude.

I think most folks have moments of Holiday panic.  This dark time of year is made bright by snow, and giving, and forgetting your sister-in-law is a creep.  Let your funk go.  In the peace of the season, I send you happy thoughts and hot cocoa.

Lu

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We are in the Wonder Years.  Yes, indeed.  Sometimes I wonder what’s going wrong with the world.   Other times I wonder what I will need to fix next, my foot or the faucet.  Or I wonder when cooking dinner became optional.

Now that my children are raised, I wonder how long I can use/eat peanut butter as a healthy meal.  My peanut butter sandwiches look like Dagwood Bumstead creations on multi-grain wheat.  I wonder how many of you remember Dagwood, or Prince Valiant, or the mystery man in Brenda Starr.  Oh, how I loved the Sunday Comic section.  (I Googled Prince Valiant.)  Yep.  He’s still around.

There are many ways of using “WONDER.” I like them all.  I especially like the definition that uses it as causing astonishment or appreciation.  So how can we catch time.  So easy.  One night I just couldn’t fall asleep. I turned my mind to those certain moments in my life that captured that sense of wonder.  I vividly recalled being in that moment to the point that I actually re-experienced the sweetness of that day.  I drifted off to la-la land.  Cool.

Now there is nothing paranormal about doing this.  It was not an out of body experience; I was just using recall and imagination to relive those timeless, vivid bits of happiness in my life that belong only to me.

I started collecting vibrant memories. So I caught moments in time.  Do you think this is one way to keep your memory healthy?  Who knows? I would like a bit of feedback on this experiment.   We may be making history.

Before I forget, on December 6 at 7 p.m. we are having a B.Y.O.B.  party.  Just bring one of your favorite books, and we can exchange thoughts, get new ideas, and expand our book lists.  Some of the best reads I’ve ever had came from our patrons putting me on to a new author.  Prepare. I hear it going to be a long, cold winter.

Final thought.  My grandkids and I watched Lassie Come Home.  There are two versions.  We watched both of them. Thanks to the guidance of the Kids & Teens crew for the recommendation.

I give thanks to you.

lu

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I admit it. I’m old fashioned. In this digital crazy world, I still love to read magazines. You see magazines are moveable objects that I don’t have to boot up, and I don’t have to sit down at a computer or press one single button. And better yet, I can plunk my body in a cozy, comfortable spot and just veg out with a half cup of M&Ms (healthy dark chocolate, of course).

To digress, I think M&Ms have replaced Fannie May because they are budget friendly.

Back on the magazine trail, I recently found a five star goody. Shopsmart is sponsored by Consumer Reports. As the cover says, no ads and no hype. I just browsed the latest issue and discovered that Cascade dish detergent passed the new green tough test. Only Cascade cycled through to win the best of all the rest for clean, filmless dishes. I can use this info.

Little tidbits of wisdom on a bazillion different things keep us informed of new trends. The older issues of this monthly magazine, going back a year, are likewise worth a check out.

Almost all magazines also provide websites to feed your mania. If you are caraholic, Motor Trend is for you. Our selection of magazines covers a dizzying array of choices. Not all articles are fluff and nonsense, many of the writers deal seriously with serious issues.

One of the important characteristics of magazines is their current and up-to-date approach to their topics. Researched and well written, the writers try to make most magazines quite readable. Once in a while you’re bound to hit an esoteric bore. Ah, well, march on.

On the next rainy day, come to the library and find a comfy chair near the magazine section and just explore. To find older issues, just lift the shelf. Or go to the cafe, and sift through your choices. It’s relaxing, cozy, and fun.

See you at the Ask Us Desk.

What’s your favorite magazine?

Lu

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TIME IS JUST GOING TOO FAST!  There is so much I want to do that I sometimes ignore the moment.  I feel this compelling urgency to fly to the next experience.   STOP!

One day I noticed my breathing which was shallow and rushed, not good; in fact, it was a bad sign.  I have read enough about deep breathing to know that somewhere in my emotional world I was going in circles.  My head was anywhere but in the moment.

Then I pondered my problem, and being me, I hit the books looking for a type of quick fix, do-it-yourself, kind of manual.  Let me recommend what I  discovered.

Peace Is Every Breath: A Practice for Our Busy Lives by Thich Nhat Hanh, published in 2011 helps us ground ourselves in the present in such a practical way that the core idea can become YOU.   I photocopied a morning exercise that helped me start the day in a positive and mindful way.

Throughout the many stages of my life, I have found solace and solutions and excitement and even escape in books.  Of course, the library is the perfect place for me.  This column is a little about my ego.  Besides being “bookwoman” I am also curious and getting “curiouser.”  What’s coming down the road, and where are we going and when?

Well folks, hang on, we are in for a digital ride on the bucking bronco at the rodeo!   New/old ideas:  e-books, streaming, smart phones, texting, and — who knows what else?   “Throw away your cell phones and get a smart phone” is the new battle cry.  Sadly, I believe it is true.  My daughter-in-law grabs her computer every time she goes to a restaurant so that she can print out a coupon.  She may not cook, but she can save money.

Guess what?  I now get coupons from Bakers Square on a regular basis.

Are we too old for Facebook? I don’t know, but my granddaughter and I just put me on.  Whether or not I pursue it remains to be seen, but we had a good time doing it.

I hope to see you at the movie Invictus in November.  We can befriend each other.

PEACE IN EVERY BREATH.

LU

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Holy cow!  That’s an old fifties expression that I still use.  To remember anything valid about the fifties, you have to be at least sixty-five. I believe we are a vanishing breed, sort of like the veterans of World War II.  But let‘s get back to that rose-colored time of our youth when  I still had a waistline, brought my lunch in a brown bag, and traveled the city.

Actually I was a college student and took the ‘L’ from one end of the line to the other, and I often came home quite late.  I was never afraid, nor were my friends.  I was happy to be going to college, worrying about grades, and guys, and summer jobs.  I think the habit of always have a book about me developed at that time.  Those ‘L’ rides were long.

Toward the end of the fifties, I went to a zillion weddings, including my own.  Wearing my little tiara and Gone with the Wind skirt, I and my husband (looking lean and nervous)  swore for better or worse to be true to each other.  Looking over my shoulder, there were many more betters than worses.

We both came from blue collar homes, shared common values, started with very little money, but appreciated our old hand-me-down furniture.  My mother-in-law gave us her old, itchy, forest green couch, that had been embraced in plastic its entire life.  I immediately covered it.  But you know, it was okay, and we were happy to have it.

We started a family and somehow managed.

I miss having a hot fudge sundae at a soda fountain, wearing swishy crinoline skirts, dancing with a partner to the old music, and just listening to the radio.

No doubt our generation lucked out.   We lived between wars, were better educated than our parents, and had a strong work ethic.   We also had opportunities and choices.  The fifties, not perfect by any means,   offered a slower pace with traditional patterns of life style.  For some of us, definitely not all groups, we lived and worked and raised our family in a gentle time.

Today, times are tough, jobs vanish, and the economy walks a tightrope.  We live in a tsunami of oppressive headlines; it’s difficult to be upbeat.  Historically we’ve been here before (I was raised by post-Depression parents).  So in this big global world, a new generation will  step up. Hope is who we were and who we are.

What do you miss most from the fifties?

Lu

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